Certainly glad others haven't experienced any sexism in the sport, but I personally have - and I haven't been diving very long. I don't think it is
more prevalent in diving than elsewhere - but yes, it exists. Honestly, it hasn't been anything terribly overt - like getting sexually harassed on a dive boat or having someone say, "You can't do that, cause you're a
girl." But c'mon - of course it exists. Here are three examples of things that happened directly to me:
- On a dive boat, we had two groups and two dive masters. In my group there were four of us, I was the only woman. The dive master gave a briefing and looked directly into the eyes of the 3 men and never even glanced at me. Subtle, yes - but I guess he thought my husband was more competent to remember what to do/not to do?
- On a different boat, we queued up to get weights and I walked over only to be told, "I can give these to your husband if you don't want to carry them." Now, on the surface this might seem nice to some - but jeez, really? It was 10 lbs and he didn't think I could handle grabbing them and walking a few steps to sit down & put them in my BC?
- While shore diving on Bonaire, we had our obligatory "overall" dive briefing and the guy mentioned we needed a key to get into the storage room (for our gear @ night). My husband was standing near the dock looking at the water (a good 15 ft away) and I was standing (literally) right in front of the guy when he was handing out keys and he walked around me to give the key to my husband.
Again, these aren't slap-you-in-the-face examples - but sexism, all the same. I'm not a waif of a woman who cannot carry 10 lbs, nor am I some hideous beast that no one wants to make eye contact with and I obviously have hands so I could've grabbed a key and seriously, my husband is the one who loses stuff all the time.
This isn't meant to slander the men who aren't perpetrating examples like these, but I don't think a lot of men even
notice stuff like this. The guy who was standing behind me when the weight thing happened on the dive boat let out a chuckle and said, "Really?" very quietly as I walked away (lugging that massive 10 lbs) - so he saw it, but small things like eye contact go unnoticed.
BTW, the last time I bought a car - I walked out of one dealership because he directed all of his talk directly to my husband even though we made it very clear up front that I was buying the car (w/ my separate money) and I was going to purchase what I wanted (and my husband remained almost mute during the entire interaction). I don't think he realized his very expensive mistake, even as we walked out, as was still addressing my husband to "come back and negotiate" with him.
That was overt, lol.