Wow.... I'm going to assume we are just not understanding each other. I will try to remedy that.
This is not an issue of air sharing being "a dangerous skill to practice". I fully encourage any diver, OW student through the saltiest of us to practice any emergency procedure to the point where it becomes muscle memory. At the end of the day, should the unthinkable happen, these skills might save a life. If practicing every single skill on every single dive is what you like doing, go right ahead. That is not the issue.
The point I am trying to make is that in the context of a Basic Scuba Discussion where people new to the sport (hobby/past time/etc let's not make an issue of of this one too! :11doh
should not be doing this to extend their dive. As in sharing air for the specific purpose of going a bit further just because their buddy happens not to have the best air consumption. Instead, they should be focusing in addressing the real issue and work on getting comfortable and improving their breathing technique.
If you want to practice air sharing, go ahead. Practice air sharing. But do so with that purpose in mind. Do so and think..."ok.. this is around the time when we would be holding a safety stop" and do it. Check on each other often. Get into the habit of checking the air source you are both sharing' more often.
Where this differs from what I am interpreting you are advocating is that you seem to be doing it out of convenience with the added bonus of getting some real-world practice out of it. It is not the practice I have issues with (See above). It is the convenience aspect of it.
I realize that you guys are following appropriate procedure when you share air to extend your bottom time with your buddy. I am not saying that you just take an octopus and continue merrily on. But
think of your audience (The corollary to my main point). Some new divers see experienced people doing this and don't understand the full context of how it is being done, because sometimes things go unsaid/unexplained. Things that you or I wouldn't blink about, but new divers don't even know to ask about. This gets passed on their next boat vacation and now you have word of mouth spreading around as gospel. And now you have people popping their buddy's octo in their mouth, looking at the fishies and forgetting they're breathing from someone else's air. Where is the practice?
The agency I teach through does require that skill. However, the point of it is so that people are comfortable
making a normal ascent together. If that means going horizontal for a bit, then so be it. I'm not saying every ascent (real world) will only be a straight line to the top. But there is a difference between extending your dive with a leisurely 200-500 yards horizontal distance and actively being in "emergency mode" in your head and swim out maybe 50 yds horizontally, then up. Remember that in a recreational context, a diver should not be more than 130' linear from the surface. In my opinion, the latter method is a more realistic recreational approach to air sharing practice.