Another advantage with a regular partner, is you tend to become acutely aware of how/when they are using their air. (because you are almost constantly watching the gauge on an air share, at least I do). Once your partner begins to use more or less, you are either aware of the reason, or you start looking for the reason...for example: I know I am better on air than JB, by far, but he is more efficient in current. Being aware of the nuances of each other's air consumption, makes our planning more accurate. (which, I admit is sometimes done "on-going" with our irreducible minimum, or rock bottom a constant.)
Still, we have been pretty successful. I don't think either of us, when diving together, have ever ascended with less than 500 psi. part of the reason, is that we are very aware of the other's consumption. I have over 1000 dives, he has maybe 100.
We constantly say OW divers should have the bar set higher. But when an Instructor makes the decision to put a more challenging skill "out there" even for discussion or to make divers aware, they get pounced as somehow irresponsible.
I think, like solo diving, they should mention things that are done by some divers, while stressing considerations regarding experience and possible dangers. The instructor saying "Learn to manage your own air and bouyancy first if you take this on down the road"....most reasonable people "get that".
I guess technically, PADI doesn't want them saying that...like buddy breathing.