The O ring needs a little dab of grease to help it deform to the correct shape. Tightening the valve is a topic which brings out a lot of comments. You can wrap the cylinder with newspaper and clamp in a vise. Use a wrench to snug the valve until it stops turning. This should equal about 30 lb-ft of torque. The valve will accept up to twice that torque without problems so don't worry about hurting it. If no vise, get a buddy to grip the tank as tight as he can. Dive shops use the back hand, clubs or whatever to screw the valve in place. This is because it is easy to remove later without tools. In fact, if the tank is drained the valve will almost fall out. However, it might be better to squeeze as much air as possible from between the mating surfaces due to possibility of corrosion and this requires a firm tightening.