I live in constant fear of the moderators' wrath?
No, honestly I don't find it worthwhile to whine about everything. Creates more work for you, and often gives more attention to the offenders, and then they return with vengeance (because like I said, they lack the self-control anyway). I do not come to these boards for that, I try not to get too emotionally involved. Better to ignore.
I would think though that on some of the subforums tighter rein would be appropriate (like is already happening), and Leah raised a valid issue here. The Salvo thread IS a good example. It went to drain very early, and I think men ignoring the topic were the main culprit. (The original emphasis was brought up several times during the discussion). Considering the low traffic on Women's Views, maybe there is something wrong with this.