Scuba, I agree with your last sentence: It's about being proactive as opposed to reactive. Hopefully, divers will learn that it's their necks on the line and that being proactive is the best way to avoid all sorts of confusion and trouble. This is a dangerous and extreme sport - no matter how you may wish otherwise - and if you aren't willing to assume the responsibility for your own safety, you're likely going to be hurt.
Your first paragraph indicates that you are hearing the answer to your question, the second that the answer hasn't yet soaked in. Sorry that those dive professionals aren't giving you the answer that you want to hear, hopefully you will come to grips with the reality before you get hurt. Obviously, it would be better if EVERYONE was more responsible and proactive, but this is the real world and it just doesn't always work that way. Until it does, please dive defensively. I think a good rule of thumb might be to expect more of yourself than you do those around you and to NEVER assume that anyone has your six.
All of the attention and supervision that I keep hearing some expect is usually available, it does require a willingness to pay for a private dive master to serve as both sherpa and dive guide. We're talking in circles in this thread and I'm going to suggest that we change the basic parameters of the conversation: instead of arguing about what is, why not switch the conversation to what we would like for it to be? Tell us what you think are reasonable expectations for professional conduct for charters and dive masters, how you would like to see them implemented and how youre going to pay for them. Remember details count, youre drawing up a contract for services. You probably wont be able to afford me but assume a reasonable rate for professional labor, something like a minimum of $50 an hour, plus expenses.
Your first paragraph indicates that you are hearing the answer to your question, the second that the answer hasn't yet soaked in. Sorry that those dive professionals aren't giving you the answer that you want to hear, hopefully you will come to grips with the reality before you get hurt. Obviously, it would be better if EVERYONE was more responsible and proactive, but this is the real world and it just doesn't always work that way. Until it does, please dive defensively. I think a good rule of thumb might be to expect more of yourself than you do those around you and to NEVER assume that anyone has your six.
All of the attention and supervision that I keep hearing some expect is usually available, it does require a willingness to pay for a private dive master to serve as both sherpa and dive guide. We're talking in circles in this thread and I'm going to suggest that we change the basic parameters of the conversation: instead of arguing about what is, why not switch the conversation to what we would like for it to be? Tell us what you think are reasonable expectations for professional conduct for charters and dive masters, how you would like to see them implemented and how youre going to pay for them. Remember details count, youre drawing up a contract for services. You probably wont be able to afford me but assume a reasonable rate for professional labor, something like a minimum of $50 an hour, plus expenses.