First, I am a DIR diver, and I had a lot to do with bringing the DIR ideas to the recreational diver world….as such, I often dive on charter boats with many non-skilled divers, and I do utilize all of my DIR gear and ideas, though do not preach or sip cool-aid on the boat  I also do plenty of very advanced dives, using DIR, on boats catering to advanced divers, and where our choice in boat has eliminated pretty much anyone from being in the water WITH us, that we would see as inherently dangerous, from a distinct lack of skill.
Within the context of this SOLO thread, I believe that if it is your intention to do a solo dive, it IS appropriate for you to gear optimally for your solo excursion….If this means using vintage style gear, with a single reg, I think this is fine, as your solo plans are not a secret on the dive boat…
The only area of contention I see, is what happens if you come across a poorly skilled diver, that was not in any plan to be anywhere near you—but now here they are, and they are OOA. To me, this is like a pedestrian coming across a stranger on the street that just this second, had a heart attack. If you know CPR, and if you are what I think is a moral person, you will feel compelled to attempt CPR on this person ( provided they don’t look like they are infected with ebola or other life threatening and clearly manifesting illness, and providing they don’t look like a terrorist or a mortal enemy).
As a solo diver, you should be advanced, hence the solo designation. It should be easy for you to render air share via buddy breathing---the real issue is will you get the reg back from the OOA diver, after you offer it. Now you get to your determination of what you can handle, as a good Samaritan, without putting your life in danger.
If you are at 60 feet, and a decent freediver, you take a huge breath, pass the reg, and wait for the eyes to go back in to focus, and for the diver to pass you back the reg…if there is little chance it is going to come back to you, you’ll have to be ready to ditch your bc, and do a free ascent, leaving the diver with your bc and air. If you don’t think you can make it to the surface, if this diver freaks, then you have a real issue as to whether you dare attempt buddy breathing with them.
This scenario is one reason for the octopus to be valid, if you don’t want to either risk your life, or the life of an OOA stranger. If you limit yourself to advanced dive boats that shun poor divers ( the good boats), then perhaps you can forget the octo, as any OOA diver must have suffered a reg explosion, and should have basic buddy breathing skills. Or, you can brush up on your free ascents, and plan the possibility of donating your whole tank and bc…..or, plan on watching a diver drown, and then having to live with that the rest of your life—but you stayed safe and solo.
If I decide to dive with a vintage scuba setup and be solo, it would only be on an advanced boat….and I really don’t mind giving up my tank and reg and free ascending—if the diver will not give the reg back. I’d not expect this to happen on an advanced boat, but that is the risk taken, and the solution to me.
Normally, it is way easier to just dive my DIR gear….If I am diving with DIR buddies, but then I take a solo excursion 100 yards away from Sandra and Bill, if I run into an OOA diver, handling them with long hose and necklace reg will be simple, with no risks I can imagine.