I think I have a solution to the new PC version of life that we are all supposed to live by now.
It seems that this new way of life means that anybody should be able to do anything since anything less would be unfair, and we're all supposed to chip into the communal pot to make sure everything is fair to everyone regardless. It appears this even expands to activities such as diving because to not allow someone who can't manage to do the simplest things like keep track of their gas supply to be allowed in the water would just be wrong. So I guess if I don't have common sense enough to know not to drive down the wrong side of the freeway or drive drunk it's OK now? How is this any different....OK forget about that, it's off track.
OK, anyway my solution to this is if the "new" rules are that half my equipment is there for my buddy including a larger tank to accomodate their additional air usage, an added regulator that I wouldn't need if I was solo, an additional hose of a longer length, an an SPG that I could do without if I wanted but since the buddy may be a hoover I would need to keep close track of supply once we are sharing air.
What I will do is have the buddy go and buy the extra equipment needed for them to use since it is "theirs" and if they don't go buy it, then they will have to be happy with what I buy, but there's a catch. Just like rental equipment, if it's my stuff then they will be charged whether it's used or not. For the extra gear that I wouldn't necessarily have to have if I was diving solo I'm going to charge them $50 per dive in rental fees for the equipment that is for them to use in an emergency payable before each dive, cash only. Consider it an insurance policy of sorts. How about that, sound fair? I'll make sure to be there for you, keep track of your gas usage, make sure you don't go too deep, and wait on you hand and foot. But no wiping rear ends, that's where I draw the line.
So now everybody's happy. And if worry wort is concerned about the quality of the redundant gear that is for them then they are always welcome to go buy the gear of their choice....that I will carry around for them.
Or, you could just hire a Divemaster.