Fritz, I would just like to say "SUPER JOB" on what you have done for LJ. I hope that if I ever do have a problem that people like you are there to help!
I appreciate the thoughts. However, the irony about all of this is that I really don't know John except as another SB user who posted occasionally. I was simply trying to be a good scuba citizen by posting a trip and looking for anyone else wanting to carpool, and John showed up.
The other irony is that, as my subtitle says, I consider myself basically a solo diver. I'm into photography and even when I dive with a group I treat myself as solo and don't want a dive buddy to worry about or to worry about me. I always have my bailout pony with me nowadays and don't want to be an instructor or a rescuer or anything... I just dive for myself, and it happens that other people are on the same boat and in the same waters. I'm even working towards the SDI Solo Diver certification.
And I don't just dive solo, I
live solo, for pretty much the same reasons - I don't want to be responsible for anyone, nor do I want anyone to be responsible for me.
So, now maybe you can understand that for me to have been for a while the only connection the hospital had for John - a guy I had just met - to the rest of the world is just really, truly, absolutely a bizarre experience for me.
But still, I don't think any of us SB'ers would have done much differently. Conscience demands it of us. If any of you found yourself in that position, you would have done the same.
Although, now I'm thinking I'll need my own release form with contact info for anyone who carpools with me in the future... :shocked2:
But now I am kind of out of the loop. His vehicle is safe with me and I'll do anything else to help, but John's family is there with him and it's up to him to pull through now. I truly hope he does, and that we find out what happened so all us divers can avoid a similar event.
>*< Fritz