Not knowing that DAN is secondary insurance and reimburses after the fact.
I didn't know that either, and I've bought DAN for several years.
It's not that simple. DAN must arrange the full works - evacuation (ambulance, airplane etc.), a doctor to accompany you and the correct facility has to be ready for you. They can't just a book a random plane to move you from one hospital to another, in case that your symptoms worsen.
That's what I remember from their documentation, that they have to arrange the medical evac, or you probably won't be getting that reimbursed.
In any case, they should've called DAN right when they got out of the water, not several hours later.
I agree with the statement, but also recognize there is an element of "hindsight is 20/20."
If you have DAN and are experiencing what you think could be a medial issue related to diving, even if it doesn't seem like an emergency, it's probably best to get in contact with them at the earliest opportunity. They might be able to assist you in some way, or if your symptoms worsen, be aware of your case and able to respond more quickly. If it turns out to be nothing, or just short-term, then it didn't really cost much to give them a phone-call.
but truthfully most divers would not have had the resources/expertise/experience readily available to follow the path we did.
I'm not rich, but I like to have a good buffer. Most divers spend a lot of money on training, and equipment. Some divers also spend a lot of money on travel and vacations. $30k is no small amount of money, but also isn't something one has to be a millionaire to have saved up.
type 2 hit when they told me they weren't feeling great and their appearance, gait , speech, etc immediatly caught my attention
It's also worth noting, that an impaired person will often also be incapable of self-diagnosis, and need others around them to make those calls. It's like being narced, it can sometimes be difficult to recognize in the moment because you're too narced to recognize you're narced.
Perhaps you have not seen instances where breathing oxygen for a while completely resolves decompression symptoms? If a diver is ambulatory and tired and seems to be improving from oxygen, it is not so hard to believe that people may choose to stay on o2 and see what happens.
This too. It may have seemed mild or temporary in the moment.
I've felt bad after a dive numerous times, but after some water and rest felt much better. I suspect mostly dehydration, but occasionally frequent chances in depth. It can be hard to avoid mild dehydration in 105 degrees and an August sun in Texas while putting your gear on. Even if you drink a bunch of water right before jumping in, it may take 30 minutes for your body to start telling you that you should have had more.