Integrated octo breaks modularity of the system. ...
That's why I have a number of these integrated inflators on single wing and wings for doubles so I can swap systems and keep using same regs.
... I do not connect my inflator in less than 40 F water as it introduces an extra risk (I had real cases of inflator freesing) ...
I have dived with an Apeks integrated octo in -1.5 C (colder than 30 F) in the Antarctic. I have never had to use one for real in such cold water but I did try it to make sure it worked OK - it did. Have also done a far bit of diving at around 40 F or colder. If freezing is a problem when inflating a BC I suspect that technique (use short bursts) and/or moist air might be a problem. I would not disconnect inflators unless there was a problem as that is just asking for cold stiff o-rings to fail when you reconnect them. How do you inflate your drysuit?
... Failure point. Faulty oring on said inflator hose. Sticking inflator...makes my wing inflate or not able to inflate via inflation hose . I have to disconnect the hose so as to not have a freeflow. I now have a useless Octo - I have to manually inflate it to control my buoyancy.
What do I breath off if I have to donate my primary?
Yes I can share primary with a panicked diver...
An excellent point, but I have to say that it is unlikely in the real world and while using integrated inflators for over 20 years/thousands of dives I have never been in this situation. The seals in the integrated octo inflator hoses I have used seem to be much more reliable than in a normal BC/drysuit inflator fitting o-ring. I have had some leaks, but never any catastrophic failures. The leaks I have had were annoying but did not result in a significant loss of air (and the fitting was completely repaired simply by soaking in warm water when I got home). In my experience the hose itself wears out and needs to be replaced before you need to worry about a serious leak developing at the fitting.
... The non standard inflator hose is clearly a good argument against it (I did see at least one post on SB where someone had a hassle on vacation because it broke and it was practically impossible to find a replacement)...
Another excellent point, but you can just keep a spare fitting or hose in your save a dive kit. You don't even need a spare hose, just the fitting, and this is a good idea even if you use a standard bc/drysuit inflator. It can be really hard trying to swap out a failed o-ring in one of these if you are on a rocking boat or in a hurry to catch a tide. Some of the places I dive it is impossible to even get a hose let alone one with any sort of bc fitting. Carrying spares is a good idea unless you are happy to miss dives due to gear failure.
It never fails to amuse me that someone thinks having one less hose is actually more convenient than a longer-than-necessary inflator hose and a much bulkier-than-necessary inflator mechanism. This is especially true considering that you need to use your alternate only occasionally, but are dealing with the inflator multiple times on every dive...
It must be good to be so easily amused
More seriously, the inflator hose I use is no longer than the hose I would use anyway, and you are losing the bulk of another second stage as well as another hose (well the hose itself is pretty insignificant on a dive I agree). The integrated octos I use are not that much bigger than a decent BC inflator and are easy to use. As with any such equipment, you need to learn where the buttons are and how to use it properly. For me, the normal BC inflators on one well known brand are for me too small to hold and use comfortably and more important are very very slow to inflate. That is important for me as I do a lot of cold water diving with a couple of heavy camera housings and I need to use the BC inflator a lot. But that is just my preference as of course many divers seem to get on just fine with that design.