I don't know a single CCR diver that has any significant experience that has stuck with their first unit. Sometimes is a complete ignorance of what you need/want vs what you think you'll need/want, sometimes it's being promised something that doesn't deliver, sometimes it's a change in diving style. But you probably won't get away from it.
I think I do not qualify as having significant experience. Seriously. But, I am at about 120 hours or so and MOD3 qualified on my unit and I am still quite happy with it.
I am a big fan of buying used. I paid well under 1/2 what a new one would cost to get my unit. No regrets. You just have to shop carefully, including being careful about what seller you purchase from. I have friends who have bought very good condition Prism 2 units - 3, between them - all for around $3K or less in the last couple of years. I bought 2 used rEvos for less than $5K each and sold one for less than $5K. It is very hard for me to imagine spending >$10K on a CCR...
I came into CCR diving with the idea that I would do the best I could to buy what would be good for me long-term, but also understanding that pretty much everyone (that sticks with it) ends up moving to something different for their second unit. I regarded my first CCR purchase as my Starter Rebreather.
Which is another reason I did not want to pay full price for a new unit. I figured if I shopped carefully and paid a fair price for a used unit, I could dive it until I figured out what I REALLY wanted, and then sell it for roughly what I paid and move on. I feel very lucky, at this point, that I still prefer what I dive over any other options that I know of.
I agree that being able to directly buy parts is important. At least, it is and has been, to me. I'm still money WAY ahead, but I have replaced just about every part on my CCR at some point. Everything major except for the counter lungs themselves and the controller. That may sound like a good argument against buying used, but I look at it as having acquired a much better education on my CCR than most people ever get. Meanwhile, I have never actually missed a dive because of my CCR.
I don't think anybody has mentioned electronics, really. Personally, I would not consider buying any CCR that did not use Shearwater electronics. But that's just me. Related: I would strongly consider limiting myself to a unit that can be serviced at the same service center that services the electronics. In the U.S., that means rEvo and Meg/Tiburon. Those units come with Shearwater electronics and Dive-Tronix - the U.S. service center for Shearwater - is also a factory service center for rEvo and ISC (that makes the Meg & Tiburon). Being able to send my unit to Dive-Tronix and have the unit itself and the electronics all serviced there, at one time, has been very valuable to me. They do excellent work, very quickly, and for very reasonable prices.