paddler3d:
All the DIR folk I have interacted with are at my local watering hole...a quarry in PA. This quarry seems to have two lots...folks there doing their checkout dives and the regulars. These regulars have their doubles, their stage and deco bottles, their canister lights and there is even a couple of folks that have their Inspriation rebreathers there. In the beginning I thought I'd be social and intereact with some of these folks, but after half a dozen times of not so warm welcomings, I stopped interacting with them. After that I have had a few unsolicited interactions.
So, they are my sampling of DIR folk. Also in ScubaBoard itself. Look at how many non DIR forums have DIR comments all over them?
I would very much like to meet local DIR folks that aren't pretentious cause DIR is really about SOPs and saftey and having lived many years by SOPs, that makes sense to me.
I come from a strong climbing background and climbers may just be a different breed of people that love to hang out and talk about climbing with complete strangers.
My local watering hole is cold and deep and great training, but I much rather like it when my buddy and I can get schedules allied and head 20mi off the coast of O.C..
Your sampling of DIR folk probably has little to no DIR folk in it. People in doubles with stages and can lights are divers. There is nothing about that that makes them DIR. As for the rebreathers, well they are definitely not DIR. If you are speaking of bainbridge, I have met both ends of the spectrum up there. But many seem to be nice enough. Some of them like to espouse about their diving, but maybe that's just a PA thing
Most of them are not there in the winter while I'm diving there anyway.
As for talking, most if not all of us who have actually taken GUE training are of the "tell them with your diving and not your words" crowd. That is usually what the GUE instructors tell people in DIRf. So, just for those who think that GUE needs to teach social graces to their students (which I don't believe is their job), they actually do. But don't you think that years of education from kindergarten on up through the last day of formal education for some of these people did that as well and some still ended up being dicks. Does that make everyone who went to elementary school a butthole? The logic of the DIR haters is truly amazing.
nemrod:
Adobo, I have about had enough of you bud. I have not been involved in this thread and was directed to your comments about me in this thread by others--many others who are tiring of you as well. I will appreciate if you not talk about me behind my back as I don't think I have of you or any one else. As to my comments, most understand they are tongue in cheek and none of them are posted in this DIR forum. Your exactly why I have a problem with DIR, specifically certain DIR divers. DIR is a good thing, I admire the effort to become a good diver and to push the envelope safely through DIR training and methods. I will thank you to leave me out of your agenda
In post #76 Adobo says he is not a DIR diver. So, you've done what everyone else does: Link DIR divers to statements made by non-DIR divers.:no
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As everyone knows, there are buttheads all over this planet. A great many of them are non-DIR divers. Many of the DIR diving buttheads are not GUE trained. And, even a good number of the non-GUE instructors teaching DIR diving seem to have a similar training style.
I do agree that if you get someone who is passionate about becoming the best at what they are doing, they may have some social graces missing. My guess is that many tech divers in general have social problems. It's just easy to lump any of the ones that piss people off into the DIR crowd.
Next time a DIR diver pisses you off... and I mean you, not some best friend's sister's boyfriend's brother's girlfriend who heard from this guy who knows this kid who's going with a girl who saw a DIR diver bash people at 31 flavors last night... ask who their instructor was. Since there are only about 40-50 of them around the world, it'll be easy to narrow down which one is the culprit of all this. Ask to see their cert card from GUE. Ask them any number of things that they probably don't have to actually prove they are GUE divers, but just an incredible butthead who wants people to think he/she is something they are not.
Until you actually do this, then bashing those of us who can answer those questions just makes you no better than the people you are trying so hard to bash.
Chris