Hi all, thanks for all the replies, really appreciate it!
Nice to know that 5mm isn't overkill for tropical climates, and that a number of divers commenting here also find it useful in tropical climates. Also, knowing that I can actually open slightly to flush it in the event that it's too warm (never thought of it) makes it a more flexible option as well.
Those advocating for 2mm or 3mm also had a point seeing that the some pools might indeed be colder than some, and are generally not too indicative of tropical diving conditions. Although I'm more inclined towards the 5mm for now, I might eventually just go for a 3mm as the middle ground if I feel it's needed in the future.
With all that being said, I guess it'll really be best if I could try out rentals and have a feel of wetsuits for different thicknesses. Just hope that I can find full body wetsuits fitting me, as I had issues with finding off the shelf wetsuits that would fit my proportions. My settling down on either a 2mm wetsuit vs 5mm wetsuit was also partly due to the fact that I could only find wetsuits with these 2 thicknesses that fits me.
As for drysuits, I had some initial reasons for not considering them initially, first being that I seldom see drysuits around my diving community, even those dabbling in the tech realm. Also, when asking about the suitability of drysuits in tropical climates, my immediate circle of mostly recreational divers would insist that drysuits are better suited for cold water climates, overkill in tropical climates etc. However, it's also possible that I just need to expand my diving circle more, and speak to more serious technical divers rather than mostly divers who have never tried on a drysuit.
As for budget, I'm currently saving up for a set of double tank regs (probably giving Deep 6 a try) and also a doubles wing, so I was kinda in the mindset of off delaying a drysuit until I have my basic doubles set up first, and just using a thicker wetsuit as a stopgap in the meantime. Sad that I don't have enough cash to get all of them at once.
But even if I have the means, I bet that I would have do a lot more chores before buying all of them so that my SO doesn't just murder me in my sleep
All in all, learnt quite some things from your replies, so please do keep sharing your opinions if you have a different perspective on this issue.