I currently have a 3/2mm shorty wetsuit, but found it inadequate even when in the swimming pool, with me usually shivering after 40 minutes of diving.
Having established that I'm more susceptible to cold than most
He already has a 3/2 shorty and he gets cold easily.
I stand by my earlier recommendation to get a 5mm (or 5/4). He can use the 3/2 he already has if it really is too warm for a 5mm.