Interesting question. In the few OOA situations I’ve seen, the OOA diver was *given* the primary reg — whether the donating diver was primary donate or not. In other words, even when the donating diver was trained to donate an octo, they donated their primary. Once the OOA diver was under control, they then swapped.
Is that how they should have been trained? Probably not. But it was logical to them, so they did it.
For the OP: dive and let dive. You want secondary donate? Great. You want to explore primary donate? I personally dive that way, but I did it the other way for 15 years, and 98% of divers do right now. It’s not as much about the details. Dive and let dive.
It *is* about the process. I would caution you to think *deeply* about your assumptions and the possibly unseen costs of your decisions. Once you presuppose a terrible situation, it will lead to a less than ideal result. *Always* try to focus on the step *before*. How did I get to this hypothetical situation? What could I have done before to avoid this? (And then redo it again: what could I do before that?
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For example, a hypothetical OOA buddy. You know who’s fault that is? Yours. You stated you’re diving with strangers. You don’t know their air consumption, you don’t know their discipline. So when you use up 500 PSI of *your* gas, insist on a buddy check. Did they use more gas than you? Then at another 500 PSI (or even less if necessary) insist on a buddy check. Now you can have a good estimate of where they’ll be based on your consumption. No OOA.
But let’s keep going: what could you do to avoid this *before* you get in the water? Create a dive plan for yourself. How much gas you’re starting with, an accurate estimate of your gas consumption, and hard numbers where things will happen: turn pressure, ascent pressure, etc. Then review your plan with your buddy and warn them about the buddy checks. Even a highly skilled diver will not argue. (I’ve been on doubles and had single-tank divers ask my pressure. I roll my eyes emotionally, but I’ve never said a word: it’s better than a completely tuned out buddy.)
None of this has anything to do with primary donate.
The problem is: all of this is WAY harder than chucking a $150 piece of plastic at your gear. It means thinking ahead, collecting information and planning in advance, taking the lead, negotiating with a stranger and sometimes being a pain. But it’s the *actual* solution. It completely avoids the OOA.
‘But what if you *do* have the OOA?’ How? They don’t happen at random. Even equipment failure will give you lead time. OOA is an attention or respect/humility problem. Can’t fix that with the shape of the octo.
You can go farther. Plan an OOA skill check. Maybe you tell the buddy. Maybe you don’t. When I did a live aboard in October, I did an unannounced OOA on the first dive. It’s called a checkout dive for a reason. If I’m diving with you for a week, I’m checking out your ability, too!
. It took 30 seconds. When we got onboard, she asked why the drill, were you testing me? Yup. Made sense to her...
Anyway, please keep asking questions. But while you’re doing that, try to ask deeper questions that will lead to a much deeper truth.