stem on the supply side allows you to press the nipple against something solid to purge it if you are in an environment where "stuff" is going to get inside of it, think shore diving, stage bottles, tight restrictions, etc. If you have the female body on the supply side there is no way to clear whatever gets inside of the body and you risk blowing "stuff" into the system, or work clogging the orifice and having no flow.
Your body can only generate a couple psi of back pressure and can perceive differences measured in tenths of inches of water pressure. What you experience as a big difference becomes inconsequential at 10bar.