I think that solo diving is the taboo of the diving community. Just the term alone sparks debate even in a forum dedicated to the subject. I consider myself a new diver (75 dives since getting certified in 2011) and cannot help laugh with the pretentious reactions of some divers to solo diving. Everyone has dived solo whether intentionaly or not. As I gain more experience I realize what a useless buddy I was for probably my first 20-30 dives (if not more). I was actually more of a liability, so I am now not shocked by the fact that the same people that taught me never to dive alone, dropped me off to the boat after the safety stop and went back to the bottom to enjoy the rest of their dive alone...
Diving alone is risky so solo diving may add some risks but I think that ones does not become a good buddy until he/she are confident enough to dive solo. I just did my first few solo dives and I can say that it added an extra level of confidence (not to be confused with overconfidence). I tool the plunge after studying for a while other solo divers, this board, shared experiences, etc. I understand that there is more risk but I felt that there was no more risk that diving with someone that just got their OW certification and is now is my buddy for a 100ft dive (a real experience). As a matter of fact I think that two inexperienced divers in a buddy team are at a bigger risk than an experience diver with redundant air and mask in the same environment.
I came to this forum to gather more info and I am shocked that the same debate that litters the rest of the forums is here. Can we leave the solo diver forum dedicated to solo diver issues/discussion and not whether is right or wrong?
I disagree. I think the debate is not whether or not solo diving is "taboo." Clearly it is not to the solo divers on this forum. But rather 1) is it for everyone? and 2) specific to the OP - is he ready mentally and equipment wise - and should he take the course? Discussing the pros, cons and risks of solo diving is appropriate and not a judgement of the activity.
How taboo can something be if a fifty something female dives solo? I think that you have just been over exposed to some of the more vocal members of SB. Or maybe my personal experience is skewed.