Can you?... can one diver use one for a family of 4? ...
Sure...
It's against every agency's recommendation, and against every dive computer manufacturer's guidance, but there is a way...
and it's safe, and it's simple. (given that you obey ascent rules, do safety stops, don't hold your breath, don't run out of air, etc)
All you have to do is make sure the diver with the computer is always deeper than the rest of the group.
If you ever let any diver get deeper than the diver with the computer, all bets are off.
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