Before I begin, I would like to express my "sympathy" to the wife and family of
****. I can say that because I have the ability to EMPATHIZE with other human geings (one of the benefits of age is experiencing the tragedy a death brings to anyone). She is to be commended for trying to save her husband's life (as reported she, a 5'2" woman pulled a 200 lb. unconscious husband 50 feet to the surface).
Without chastising KrisB any further, he did bring up an interesting point ... albeit rather insensitively and compouned it further by saying "...I honestly have trouble feeling sympathy for people I don't know or know someone who knows. There is an aweful lot of feigned sympathy in this world and it does no good to add to it." Frankly, I don't see the harm in "adding to it" but I digress. KrisB's point on how to properly watch out for your Buddy was echoed by Lamont.
However, I agree with Lamont's statement "...also i think that there was a mistake in lack of buddy contact. i don't view this as a cause because i think the outcome would likely have been the same, but i think it should be called out as a mistake."
The whole point about whether or not the proper procedure for buddy ascent was done correctly seems to be clouding one fact which no seems to be questioning ... so I will. It's been reported that
****, 45, had been diagnosed with lung and liver cancer in November, the Saturday after Thanksgiving. He had endured chemotherapy and just began radiation treatments last week. . Can anyone tell me if it is advisable for a LUNG CANCER patient, who is undergoing a very DEBILITATING chemotherapy, to dive in 80 feet of water no matter what the circumstances?
Again, I wish to convey my condolences to
****. I CAN emphatize with being married for 23 years and losing that person doing what they both love to do...
As for you KrisB, good points but the delivery was ... well sucky. I read your profile .. "SWM seeking SWF" ... How's the search going? Hope it won't be a long one ... but