MoonWrasse
Contributor
Well, there is also empathy. Having lost several close ones to me or friends/family over the years, and having a friend now going thru the hell of chemo, I can sure empathize with the gal. I suspect that this may be less of a diving incident and something more personal to her.KrisB:Really?
I mean, yeah, it is really unfortunate, but I honestly have trouble feeling sympathy for people I don't know or know someone who knows. There is an aweful lot of feigned sympathy in this world and it does no good to add to it.
From all the incident reports that have been made available, it seems as though, at the very least, we should learn that when our buddy signals some difficulty, we need to stay *very* close to him/her.
I hope that if I die in a way similar to this that people use it as an opportunity to learn, rather than to just claim sorrow and sympathy which they can't possibly feel.
Cheers,
I agree with the rest you post, given that so many diving accidents involve a missing buddy, and working to make it a safer sport is good. I doubt she could've done much more for him, including agree to be with him in a place he wanted to be contrary to his condition.