If you can put up with the arguments, you've got something like a crowd-sourced personal shopper service here.
One that will frequently tell you that what you think you want (at least now) is wrong. 50% of the time that is a good thing.
Should you go down that path - clearly stating (with specifics) as much about your situation as possible goes a long way toward giving you good results.
With
@Barnaby'sDad 's thoughts in mind to wait rather than rush... when you do start to purchase, here are some things to ponder and offer up as you are soliciting suggestions:
Where do you live ?
- are you in a SCUBA desert where there is one shop an hour away or 4 within 10 minutes?
- sometimes the specific city matters because there is one specific shop with broad market reach or rare affiliation with certain brands.
Will you dive locally or only travel to warm, clear waters?
- local environment then matters too for gear selection.
- you may want your own tanks then depending on local rental availability.
- for (at least air travel) weight and bulk may become an issue
Do you see yourself evolving into more advanced/tech-lite/technical types of diving
- maybe now is the time to select gear which may retain its utility longer as you progress - surprisingly that may not actually cost (much or any) more up front, but does strongly influence choices.
How self-reliant are you?
- do you like to configure/tinker and make things "your own"?
- do you want (at least the option) to service gear yourself?
- do you want the shop to do it for you and limit your involvement to diving and CC-charges?
Are you only comfortable buying form a "big name" or are you open to more boutique options that may offer cost savings at the same performance levels?