It's not DIR or DIR Fund. or DIR practices or DIR Training that makes people act rude, mean, arrogant, etc - like they do. It's people that are that way anyway.
In the beginning it was easy for me to discard DIR because of some of the rants and spouts that I heard/read. However, in my quest for learning and knowledge and the desire to dive better I found that DIR teaches some very good, very practical, very safe and very reasonable methods that I personally wanted to incorporate into my diving skills.
DIR does not teach be a jerk, be mean or rude, or point out that you are right when everyone else is wrong. It happens to be people that do this. George I. has a very brass and abrasive method of presenting most everything but that is George. That is his personality. That is not DIR. People who think that his personality is all that DIR is, is wrong and they would benefit from looking further to learn or just look the other way. There isn't any training for diving that teaches, be mean to others, or at least I haven't found it. If I am wrong I am sure someone will correct me in that.
People need to remember what they love about diving. I am positive that it doesn't include fighting with others.
The plea of this thread is - do not speak on behalf of those who have adopted DIR skills and methods as part of their diving preference as a representation of those as a whole who have. It is also important to remember that those who give a "group" a bad name by their actions is not the only culpret. Those who accept a few to represent a mass without validation from the mass are pretty much to blame as well.
Don't judge all those who dive DIR by are few good or bad.
Don't judge all those who dive rec by a few good or bad.
Don't judge all those who...by a few good or bad.
If you feel you must judge, do so only on the individual basis and if you can, don't judge.
Take the information, process it, file it appropriately and don't apply it to anyone or anything where it really doesn't apply. All those from Iraq are not like Saddam. So don't threat them like they are. Recognize those who act like Saddam are wannabe's without the "right" to be. Those who try to take on George's "arrogance" do not have the accomplishments that he has causes him to feel like he has the right to act that way -right or wrong.
Remember, one bad apple spoils the whole bunch is an anology to fruit. One bad person doesn't make everyone in that group bad, it makes that person stand out as bad.
Dive safe and have fun. R