Personally, I use to dive every other weekend a few years ago. My son is 17 months old, so diving is pretty well not even in the picture. It now revolves around the honey due list and playing with my son. Not complaining, but just can't wait to get him into diving.
12 more years until I can take my daughter diving, then 2 more for my son. I'm looking forward to it.
I own all of my own gear, including tanks, and I live within a 20 minute drive of about a dozen dive sites. A lot of it, including the regs and drysuit, were bought from someone who dove with his wife. She got pregnant, then two years later he realized it was going to be years before he got to dive again.
I only get wet every few months. Since July 2003, I've done 40 dives. I wrapped up a degree in 2004, then started with some kids. I used to work with another diver, and we went out regularly. I also bought a house three years ago, and so I've been busy fixing that up.
I took a break after reading "Diver Down" and taking a good look at the gear, especially my old BC. Now that I've replaced it, I'm looking forward to a few more dives. (Man, it's a really nice setup, and no learning curve.) Still, I just spent $800 (incl. taxes) on a new wing / harness and an Octo. (The Air2 wouldn't work with the wing - it was too short to share and the inflator on the wing was just too nice.) That's a lot of cash to throw down. That said, it made me feel a lot better to get rid of it.
I've never been afraid underwater. I don't know if I'm denial or if I'm just comfortable there. (Not bored) I've had a few bad dives, the worst being a
pumpkin carving contest. (I kid you not.) I came within inches of thumbing that one and abandoning the gear. I've had some bad buddies, too.
I hated golf.
I also play Wii, board & tabletop games, and the euphonium.