luckydays
Contributor
Hey Bob, your story sounds like mine a bit.
I was living in Guam years ago (more than 15) and often thought about diving. I used to drive past the dive shop everyday to and from work. Never once stopped in. I have been all over the world and occasionally thought about diving but it took going on vacation with a now ex bf to get me to do it. We went to Aruba last September and he wanted to dive but I could not. He was a new diver and was surprised with all the travel I had done, as well as all the tropical places I have lived, that I never dove before. He said if I got certified, we would vacation more. Since I need reasons to get away from work (I work for myself in my own company - yes it is hard to take a break from work some times) I agreed. I looked into getting certified, paid for the class and got certified in October 2008. Once I told him, he was happy and now I barely talk to him (hence the ex part). Currently, I have more dives under my belt than him and realize that he is a jerk. So I have found new buddies on SB and my LDS to dive and vacation with. So far it has worked.
And one day, when the timing is right, I will find a dive buddy who may be interested in being a bf as well. I can only hope he is not a jerk and I recognize it early on if he is.
I was living in Guam years ago (more than 15) and often thought about diving. I used to drive past the dive shop everyday to and from work. Never once stopped in. I have been all over the world and occasionally thought about diving but it took going on vacation with a now ex bf to get me to do it. We went to Aruba last September and he wanted to dive but I could not. He was a new diver and was surprised with all the travel I had done, as well as all the tropical places I have lived, that I never dove before. He said if I got certified, we would vacation more. Since I need reasons to get away from work (I work for myself in my own company - yes it is hard to take a break from work some times) I agreed. I looked into getting certified, paid for the class and got certified in October 2008. Once I told him, he was happy and now I barely talk to him (hence the ex part). Currently, I have more dives under my belt than him and realize that he is a jerk. So I have found new buddies on SB and my LDS to dive and vacation with. So far it has worked.
And one day, when the timing is right, I will find a dive buddy who may be interested in being a bf as well. I can only hope he is not a jerk and I recognize it early on if he is.