Rick...
I swear I am not making this up.
Here is the information straight out of the NASDS manual.
PLEASE be sure to read all the below.
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"The Out-of-Air Emergency and The Decision Matrix"
"REGAIN CONTROL... The primal response to finding yourself out-of-air at depth is shock, and an adrenalin rush caused by the "fight or flight" response. This is where your training takes over. You realize immediately that an uncontrolled, panicked ascent would have grave consequences. You regain control - your capacity to think - and fight the primal response."
"RESPOND... you have regained your capacity to think. You know you are out of air. You have two choices - dependent action taken with your buddy, or independent action taken by yourself.
Your first choice should be dependent action. If proper diving procedure has been followed, your buddy should be within arm's length. If your buddy has a safe second stage, give the out-of-air signal and share air using your buddy's safe second stage.
If the distance is too great, or if your buddy does not have a safe second stage, you should take independent action or a controlled out-of-air ascent."
"Here are your choices:"
"Out-of-Air
(ALL OF THE BELOW ARE EXACTLY QUOTED FROM MANUAL)
1) Buddy with safe sedond is close enough-
share air using safe second stage or
2) Buddy has no safe second and/or is not close enough-
perform controlled out-of-air ascent.
If your buddy is close enough but does not have a safe second stage, you may wonder why you wouldn't share air by passing your buddy's primary second stage back and forth.
Consider the reality of the situation - a stressed out, out-of-air diver, 80 feet below the surface may not be too dependable
when it comes to passing the primary second stage back to you.
Sharing air by passing the assisting buddy's primary second stage back and forth requires considerable skill, practice, and discipline. Most basic diving courses provide training in sharing air under highly controlled situations that lead to a false sense of confidence. Very few basic diving courses provide training in sharing air under true stressful conditions. This results in students with no understanding of their real responses in an emergency. Sharing air in that manner has often ended tragically in double drownings in which BOTH members of the buddy team were lost."
"REACT..... choose either dependent or independent action and act decisively. Trust your training and judgement and ACT. It should take only seconds to REGAIN CONTROL, RESPOND, and REACT."
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There is additional information regarding NOT sharing your primary. But I will only post if someone would find it interesting.
You may find it of interest to see how NASDS teaches
"Independent Action - Controlled Out-of-Air Ascent Procedure."
I only wanted to quote the above so that you don't think I am a complete idiot just making this stuff up. Hey... I am new to the sport, and just am quoting what I am learning. Actually it made complete sense to me.
Please don't think that this is my idea. That's important to me.
I intend on being a very safe dive buddy. I will also make sure that the buddies I dive with share the same training. I think that is obviously going to be extremely important to finding a safe buddy. Whether or not it is DIR, or otherwise.
I REALLY do appreciate all the input on this topic. I have read the DIR training ideas, and I once again am not disagreeing with their training... but rather find it in conflict with my current training in just a few areas. Unfortunately..... the differences could create dive problems from what I can tell. Not happy about that. But I am interested in learning more about the DIR methods (I have visited a few sites showing details).
Blargh... we understand giving up the primary is not the same as sharing. Sharing would only come into place if there was a problem/failure with your safe second/backup or your buddy had no safe second. NASDS just does not want you to do EITHER. They do give light training on the proceedure though. We are not confused with that issue.