Yes Robin....that is definitely a must read....
Love....WOW...How hard is it to describe something that is ever changing, ever growing? Something that can hurt like nothing before, yet can let you soar to heights unknown?
I am sure everyone goes thru some kind of love in their lives. Different feelings of love for the different situations of life.
Love for your child - If I close my eyes I can still feel their small fingers wrapped around mine, hear them calling my name in their baby voices....their breath against my skin as they sleep in my arms...the look on their faces as they sleep - Going off to the first day of school......the memory brings tears (of course if they read this they would say mom is off her rocker). Yet this love also changes as they grow, as they become less dependent....
Love for your partner...Now I thought I was in love before (don't we all)...but looking at it now, it wasn't. It was opportunity. What did I know what I wanted at 17? 20? Did I know who I was?...life at that age is in the fast lane, not really getting anywhere so you reach for what passes by. Today I found love, because experience has showed me what love isn't.
In order to love, you have to love yourself - as you partner will be the extension of yourself - matching puzzle piece, your complimentary. Love of a partner is when two become one. A feeling, an emotion so solid and strong that even the wears and tears of life will not break them apart. You share the pains and the joys - feeling that of and for each other...With a thought of the other, the emotions sweep you away - even after routine has set in. It can get to the point that you will feel the others pain so you can take it away for them (My partner hit his nose the other day and mine hurt!! I couldn't for the life of me figure out why, until he told me of what happened to him....OK now you also know that I'm off my rocker)- unconditional sacrifice, patience and acceptance are all parts of love.