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"I won't dive with you" is a powerful message ... one that overpowers a great many messages of more significance to someone wanting to learn and improve.Then, when I finally did hear about DIR, I thought it was an excellent system! I was really excited to learn more about it and start diving with DIR divers. I ended up meeting a DIR diver, and because of the things that I enjoyed doing that were not DIR and the fact that I couldn't afford some of the equipment and training, the diver didn't dive with me. Unfortunately, the diver was the only DIR diver in the area i knew, and the community was very close knit. It seemed rather sad to me that such a thing would happen, when I was really excited to learn more and be part of it.
I had a knee jerk reaction to this, which was to immediately dislike the DIR system, not because of its philosophy, but because of a zealous diver that mistreated me. It seems that there are a lot of stories out there that are similar based on what others have said. After leaving the area I did meet a few other DIR divers that were a whole different story, and it did excite me that the divers didn't all have the same attitude. I didn't get the chance to dive with them, but I got a lot of emails and more than a few invites.
It's an unfortunate side-effect of Rule #1 that is often used to the detriment of the DIR community as a whole ... not to mention to those newer divers who may be more easily discouraged than you were.
Well put ... I think that STI is a common theme with pretty much anyone who would find this style of diving attractive.I always say to them "I am not DIR, I am STI." This always leads to them asking, "What is STI?" to which I reply "Striving to Improve."
... Bob (Grateful Diver)