Sas
Contributor
I think if agencies started teaching better buddy skills, they wouldn't have to condemn solo as much, as fewer would desire to solo dive. Right now it seems the buddy skills training (and requiring a buddy-- even if a really bad one) is about giving a false sense of security and reducing liability if something goes wrong, and not truly about safety. Start producing buddies who are assets and not liabilities, and I bet we'd see some changed minds.
But that's just my opinion.
Most people I know (including myself) who solo dive, do not do so to avoid bad buddies. They do so for the enjoyment of being alone in the water. So I am not sure fewer people would desire to solo dive. The buddies I know who do not solo dive want to do so, but do not because they are not confident enough. So I am not sure that agencies improving teaching buddy skills will change who wants to dive solo. But, that is just my opinion and therefore could be quite wrong, n=a small number and all that.
I have not had the experience the OP has. Solo diving was never actively discouraged by any of my instructors, but instead they emphased not diving outside one's limits (which for many, involves solo diving). I see many solo divers around and no one gives them a second glance. I guess it depends on where you live and the culture around that perhaps, as I was quite surprised when joining Scubaboard (and other diving forums where I interact with foreigners ) at the big deal made out of solo diving being "evil" and in some places being banned. Guess I'm lucky I would have harsh words to say to someone who gave me grief for solo diving!