UnderSeaBumbleBee
Contributor
I think the criterion they're considering is, "Are you Catherine, Thalassamania, One Bright Gator, or Daniel Aleman? No? You're in!"
Well, if you look at the poll results both Catherine and Thalassamania voted for it to be an opt in forum. Even they see the merits of the opt in option. At this point I don't think you should have to have a mod let you in. I think anyone should be able to freely join or un-join as they wish. I think the opt in alone would take care of the most of the problems.
I don't think you should be able to hide it on your profile that you are in the forum so that the rest of the board can't see. If you are ashamed to even have people know that you are reading and trying to learn in cyberspacethen I guess you would be even more ashamed to try to incorporate anything in real life-- just my thoughts on the matter. I dont come to the forum to have anyone validate me as a person or as a diver or to get approval from other board members in this forum or other forums. I have come to read, learn and try to apply the information.
I think mods should only get involved when someone is being a problem in the forum.