What do the High Haughty Diving Gods of "Doing It Right" say about overfilling? Do they condone it? If so, I find that rather humorous. Maybe they're just silent about it.
No matter what you do as an individual, if you are an instructor who overfills, you are teaching your students that specs don't really apply to you, no matter which way you look at it. Which might be true, although seems to me that the same slippery-slope argument can then be used to undermine almost any spec; all manufacturer specs or government-regulated specs just become arbitrary numbers that can be argued away by anyone "smart enough"...
Personally, I'm no instructor and I don't really care what others do as individuals as long as they don't put me at risk. But I would expect that even if your high school driving instructor is a complete speed demon on their own, that nevertheless when they're in that training car instructing your kids they should be expected to drive within posted limits, regardless whether "nobody ever got hurt driving 25% faster than the limit on this stretch of road".