hp120 or hp100 is what you want. The 133s are just heavy
Tell that to my wife and all the women in FL carrying around double 130s
1. I have an outdoor, unheated garage space, can I store the tanks in there, or is that risky?
That's fine. Store them vertically.
2. I'm wanting steel, as I prefer the bouyancy
I know people say this all the time, but it's really "how much of the tank's weight contributes to my total weighting." A AL80 finishes a few lb positive when completely empty so you need to add a few lb to your rig to compensate. 133's finish about 1lb positive, 100s and 120s depends on the tank but most are around -1lb negative. So it's really not a huge difference.
3. I understand I should not buy used tanks without hydro
If you're buying used out of hydro tanks, try to deal with people who say they'll give you the money back if they fail hydro or will get them hydros first, and let them know you'll pay for the hydro if they pass. I've found the northeast scuba community pretty honest, and these steel tanks don't fail hydro very often and most of the ones that do look destroyed.
5. I use more air than everyone else
6. HP120 or HP133 seem like what others around my height/weight are recommending here on the forum. Does that match up with dry suit and steel BP/W?
How much lift does your wing have? With those bigger tanks, the wing might not have enough lift to float the rig without you in it, which you want to avoid. 30lb should be enough for most of them, though.
Yes, 120 or 133's is fine with a drysuit and a steel plate for most people. If you're diving in very thin undergarments, you might find yourself a bit overweighted if that's the case, an AL plate is pretty cheap
7. Can I avoid LDS markup by doing hydro/VIP at a fire extinguisher place? I'm wanting to do the math to see how it all works out, and want to call some local shops. It costs me $30/tank/day for steel right now
8. It seems scuba.com has faber hp133 for about $400, DGX for $534... I usually find DGX to be a better price, why is that price so much higher?
The fabers I see at scuba.com are not hot dip galvanized. You want an HDG tank they hold up much better than the painted ones.