MikeFerrara once bubbled...
The worst place to be is above your buddy in his blind spot. They should teach this in entry level classes also.
The light communications you were tought for your night dive is a start but it's not much help without a suitable light.
Do they lay it on a little thick? There you were, in your instructors blind spot with a light to weak to communicate with and today you ask what if you requested air from some one who didn't have enough. You were effectively solo. If you would have had a problem then you would have been on your own. that's a very lose ineffective aplication of the buddy system. LOL And apparantly sans gas planning. Do you think it's too late to get a refund?
You beat me to the light issue..
light communication requires a good light, much stronger than most new divers use.. in limited viz a 50w halogen or 10w hid is the minimum, and even this the light may only go a few feet.. there are two types of limited viz, 1 that the viz is obstructed and dar bu ;arge particles, you tend to be able to get your light to work better here, but limited viz due to heavy fine silt the light no matter how bright dies fast..
when you stayed with your buddies on this dive what were you guys doing.. were you just hanging along or were you all active trying to do something.. if everyone is willing to just cruise together or follow one person who is doing hunting it works, but as soon as more than one person wants dinner forget about staying together.. I am talking reality...
I have done dives where if I didn't HOLD my students BC I would have lost him... I remember one dive where at an arms length his flashlight was just a faint glow....
as to not having a pony, mikes point is valid.. new divers tend to use alot of gas, so there is probably a good chance that when one guy needs it the other guy is probably in a similiar situation.. There is no valid reason not to carry some type of backup for recreational divers.. tech divers should be carefully planning their dives and are much more experienced they shouldn't be running out of gas..
also consider the gas supply on the divers is is fine and 1 diver has a reg failure, the second guys gas supply under stress, the OOA guy may breathe too hard and now 2 people have a gas supply problem, or if they are newer divers they probably didn't buy the best regs and 2 stressed out divers may not be able to breathe off a lower performing reg at depth..
You always have to consider the WORSE situation that could happen and prevent that.. you can't count on everything being ok...I personally have seen INSTRUCTORS used to clear conditions (especially if they consider 40 ft bad viz), get paniced in poor viz conditions.. I remember rescuing a very experienced instructor because he never had to deal with 5ft viz and got lost and started panicing... We were on a broken up wreck, I was lobster hunting about 100yards from the upline when he passed me going the wrong direction with those BUG eyes(and God only knows where is buddy was at the time)... In the NE a free ascent definately isn't a good thing...
Usually most divers can handle a single problem, but someone who isn't self sufficient gets seperated, his stress level goes up, this can trigger harder breathing and maybe an OOA situation, having the second option may be enough even if its not used to give the person a feeling of comfort so he /she can keep themselves under control.