Heya stuart,
A couple of points from my experience:
-Taking the course first and then scaling back your dives to grow slowly: I'm not sure if that works very well. Depends on you as a person of course. But the reason I do a course is to do the dives afterwards, not scale back for another year. I have had experience with a couple of courses where I didn't feel ready to do the dives after and I have scaled back then, but that had more to do with my lack of experience going into the course and the lack of quality of the course as such. I feel that after finishing a course you should be ready to do the dives on the certification level of the course. Of course if it's a "pinnacle" course (cave 2, full technical cave, T2, full trimix) you need to be a bit more cautious and need to slowly increase experience after the course but still do the dives!
Although I did have questions before starting on T2 course (full trimix), these had more to do with where and what kind of dives I could do after and if I really needed the course than with me being ready. (I even posted about this in 2015
T2 to do or not and recommendations on preparation ) I went into that course not sure if I would do a lot of T2 dives (probably more extending the bottom time at T1 (50m) depth than going deeper).
Looking back at that post, after doing T2 beginning of 2016 whenever I was wreck diving it became very easily a T2 dive, because I had options. Because the foundation (normoxic tx / T1) was very well planted, I really enjoyed having more options available, and also using them. So I'm not sure after you take classes that you can hold back.
However the other part is, experience. I went into my classes with sufficient experience to take the classes (for example I had between 50-60 normoxic trimix dives before I did full trimix). This is important because you can relate much better in the course to your own experience. You get much more out of a course if you can relate (with your own experience) to some of the stuff that's being discussed. The course becomes much richer.
I fear if you would take normoxic and full tx back to back (because you have the opportunity) that you'll miss out on some of what makes such a pinnacle course fun.
When are you ready? I don't know... I didn't know before T2 if I was ready, but I started the course and on day 1 it already clicked. Yes I was ready, it was a very laid back course (if there is any such thing in GUE courses), a lot of drills but quite easily managed, and a lot of frank and open discussions with the instructor, more like "hey guys what do you want to do, what are your goals, and let me help you get to those goals"... more like mentoring then an actual class.
Cheers
B