...But since the flames over at the *other thread* appear to be completely extinguished, leaving nothing to talk about (since the tech conversation came over here), I'll break my promise to mysef and open my pie-hole.
I've read this thread with a great deal of interest... And I haven't had to say anything at all because it all seems to be covered nicely. As soon as I think of a response, someone else posts it, saving me from getting flamed.
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Alright, then... I have a question for y'all.
I've literally grown up on the water. I was born in a hospital room overlooking the same sound that my home butts up to now. Don't think, though, that I've been here all my life. I lived in New Jersey for a long time, and then Arizona... But I always came back home to South Carolina, and I know these waters like the back of my hand. I've fished and swam and played and skied and fished and swam again my whole life.
When I was seven I learned to water ski. That same summer I learned to sail and boat, and my mother - the consistent winner of a local regatta when she was a child - taught me to sail. I was a natural. At nine I won my own first regatta... Solo.
When I was eleven I got really serious about water skiing, and by fourteen I was competitive.
I first dove, uncertified, in 1986. I was 16 years old, and said "yes" to an offer from a certified buddy to go diving. He told me to "stick with him no matter what," and I did just that. It was an amazing experience.
Over the next decade or so I dove a few more times, but never really got serious with it. I had an interest, but you know... You just get carried away with your life.
A year ago I ran into someone who certified me... I took one of those two week PADI courses to become OW certified, and I excelled easily. Before my open water certification was in my mailbox, I was hooked.
AOW came a few months later, and I became a volunteer diver at the SC Aquarium. I dove whenever I could, and when I couldn't, I was studying information on shipwrecks and all off the 'net and in libraries. The summation of my work is on display on my website.
From AOW came Rescue, which involved First Aid and CPR certifications as well. My interest piqued about DIR, based on what I heard on this board, and I took the DIR-f course in February. It was a real eye-opener in a variety of ways, but it boiled down to this: I wanted to dive like my instructors dove. I've never seen anything like it, and for the first time in my scuba career, I wasn't able to do something that I saw them do. It was truly shocking at the time.
...So I got even more serious. I bought some gear and began to practice. I quit smoking. I changed my diet. I've got 200+ career dives now. In fact, I believe I'm somewhere up around 240, if you count the dives that I did before I was actually certified.
...So what's in the future? Well, I'm working on getting going on Divemaster right now. Nitrox is something that I'd really like, but with it's unavailability here, I don't know that it'd do me much good. However, as we discussed before, I understand that deco theory is taught in Advanced Nitrox, and so I might go in that direction.
Frankly, I had a long discussion with y'all about this just a few weeks ago... Where to go from here.
Now...
Me and my actions on this particular dive (I question whether or not I should have shared at this point) have been torn to shreds by the sharks on this board. I actually had my buddy from my local dive shop call me and ask me to remove any reference of him or his shop from my posts... So that he wouldn't be affiliated with me. How's that for a nice "screw you?" Thanks, bud. Apparently he felt that it wasn't in his best interest to be affiliated with me any more. Sad. Just sad.
Anyway, I've been really chastized for "diving beyond my training." PADI said many dives ago that I was ready for a dive to 100'... And yet y'all have totally chewed me for overdiving my training.
...So my question for y'all is this... When, exactly, do you think I would have been prepared for this dive? Divemaster? Tech III? Trimix?
Let's also make something clear here... I completely agree that there is a sort of arrogance on the board from those people who CLAIM to be ultra-certified and ultra-capable. However, I don't believe that anyone's pushed me to learn more, or pushed me towards lots and lots of certifications. It's been my own personal excitement level that has driven me, and I am somewhat miffed by people who think that I am just a follower listening to other people. Believe me, it's been my own deal to go out and seek more information. I've put in countless hours, lots of dollars, and tons of effort.
...So if I've got a hunger for information... And I don't have a problem retaining the information that I've got... And I'm diving my a** off and have a couple hundred dives in the past ten or twelve months...
Why all of the accusations of being such a newbie? Why does everyone here think that I'm some sort of dumbass, uneducated greenie who's got no business in the water?
Making a mistake in my last dive cost me an extra twelve minutes at a safety stop. That's really all that happened. I thought I might overstay, evidence of the thread a few weeks ago... But I was prepared to handle that if it happened. I fell back on my training.
I keep getting messages saying, "Glad you made it out alive." Well, I'm very flattered... Thanks. I'm glad I made it out alive, too... But I didn't have an OOA. I did not come close to death. I did not fizz or bend, and I did not have an airlift. I never had any of those things... Some of these messages are coming across like I had a near-death experience.
I overstayed my NDL. That's all. It was relatively anti-climatic. I even stayed the "optional" three extra minutes for a little extra margin of safety. I'm not trying to downplay my mistake... I'm trying to add a dose of reality here: Let's not lose perspective of this mistake.
Now, I'm not going to tell y'all that what I did was right. What I did was a mistake. As I called it before, I liken it to overshooting a turn in a car. Before I even got in the driver's seat, though, I knew it could happen, and so I made sure I was prepared. Of course I did not to mean to surface with 200 psi... But I did ensure that I surfaced with SOME psi...
...So let me ask y'all this... If PADI says that a couple hundred dives ago I was ready for a 100', non-penetration wreck dive, what authority do you have to say that I am not ready for that?
Especially since none of you have ever dived with me...
The "I can just tell" or the "well, I don't agree with your thought process" posts are the epitome of arrogance.
And that's the most disturbing attitude on this board.
Let me ask y'all this... Do you think you have enough guts to post your mistakes?
...And don't tell me that you have never made them. We know better.