ginti
Contributor
Maybe it is. Anyway, the thing is another one to me.I would like to clarify that it's due to lack of experience from my side and insecurity on addressing such potential issues. It's partially a "me" issue.
If you say, "I am that conservative because I am not that experienced," you deliver a message (and, the way you answered me, it seems this is the case - and let me add that you are wise in limiting yourself a bit if your experience is not enough to make you comfortable in certain situations, this is what everybody should be doing).
If you say, "As a GUE diver, I do this and that," you deliver a totally different message - something very close to "Within GUE, we do this and that." This approach can create a bit of misunderstanding about what you say, even when you are right, and may make uncomfortable some people with different perspectives.
Anyway, I got your point, fair enough
Got it, and yes, you are probably right. This is a point you may want to highlight when you post on the forum because it is indeed very uncommon and may help people understand your perspective better.I don't think we are too far off. I am just more conservative since you are far more experienced than myself.
My social circle is mostly consisted by GUE divers, diving almost only with other GUE divers. Albeit, most dives are for research, not pure fun dives. In almost 100% of the dives with non-GUE buddies, there is some extra mental fatigue due to keeping a closer eye to the buddy. Given that, to this point, less than 10% of my dives are for recreational purposes, I would say that my social bubble might not be the typical one.