i didnt read everyones posts, too much to wade thru. If you dont want to go, then just refuse. Do go see a lawyer but just so the recruiter cant BS you, because they will and do all the time. Purty much, unless you get that final swear in, your not in anything. you just swore into DEP, so what. If thats your choice, then make sure your happy with it. Now a little about myself. Ive been in the Unite States Air Force for 11 years now. I am assigned to a Special Ops unit out here in Japan. Last month i was in maylasia, an outstanding time.. before that i was in some other country and next month im sure ill be seeing somewhere else. Ive drank a glass of liqour or beer in more countries than the common american could point out on a map. There is good and bad with everything. I think if you just duck out now without taking advantage of what you HAVE signed up for, youll be cuttin yourself short. Things can get hectic in the military, sometimes the ops tempo is hard to deal with, but thats what standing up and being a man is all about. If your worrying about war, dude, your joining the navy as a navy diver.. your more than likely not going to be anywhere near harms way, except for the normal deep tech diver ones(unless you get assigned to some special warfare unit which i dont think they will assign a new diver to anyway). Make a choice.. do what you feel is right deep down inside. dont let your family or friends make the choice for you. good luck