I spent 20 years in the Coast Guard and am damn proud of it! Saw a lot of young men and women who had no clue what they wanted to be - most didn't even know why they signed up. But they did, many stayed for 20 or more, many got out after 4 years. I have yet to have any of them ever say they wished they had never joined. Most often I hear former Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen, Marines, and Coastie's say that they wished they had never gotten out. If you know anyone who served and is out now, talk to them. Most likely thats what they will tell you.
It's not a job, not a career, it's a life, a very different and rewarding life. It's thousands of hours of sheer boredom combined with a few hours of sheer panic. It's honor, dedication, and comradery. In the end, it makes you proud, it makes you what and who you are.
Those of us who are yanks - well we have a lot of freedom that othes don't have, maybe never will. We don't have the Freedom market cornered, but we do have it pretty nice here. I have many friends in the armed forces of other countries who provide safety and comfort to their masses as we do here. Freedom isn't Free.
Yea as has been said you can make more money in the civilian market - maybe. Money doesn't make you proud, it doesn't give you the true friends you will make in any of our armed forces. Money won't make you an honorable person. It certainly doesn't give you a real sense of accomplishment.
4 years is nothing but a moment in time for a typical life span. You can't change the past, but you can impact the future.
Today is the first day of the rest of your life - just what are you going to do with it?
With any luck someday you will be an old man like some of us. When those days arrive you WILL look back and reflect. We all do.
I know what I see when I look back, I wouldn't change a thing - not the good or the bad.
Wonder what you will see? Remember you can't go back and change it if you don't like what you see - you will be stuck with it.
But at the end of the day it's your life.