I think the answer to the question of is it reasonable is a firm "it depends."
Which is another way of saying that "yes, it's reasonable" at 30 dives is *one* possible answer, though others might disagree. It depends very much on the diver. An absolute "no, it can't be at 30 dives" is something I won't agree with.
I'm probably in a very similar situation to your friend. I did my O/W training at Monterey, and did a fair number of cold water dives there, after my O/W training, with the same instructor and group that gave me my initial training. I have a very great respect for this instructor, after observing what he taught relative to what (some) other instructor's didn't teach. I own all my equipment, I've used it and drilled with since O/W, maintain it, am very familiar with it.
I just checked my log book: on dive #17, at Monterey (Coral Street, if you know the area), my instructor said, "Why don't you go out by yourself?"
"But, but, but..." I spluttered. And thus I learned a little more about diving in the real world. The guy who taught me trusts my judgement to do this right, and I figured he ought to know better than me...
Now, I'd been diving in kelp since I started, the maximum depth I could find that day was all of 25', conditions were calm, etc. Was this a dangerous dive for a diver on dive #17? I don't feel it was for me. Likewise, I've done a few solo dives at the Breakwater itself, again, a spot I am quite familiar with.
I'm only at dive 80 or so, after two years, but when I dive solo, it's only under extremely friendly conditions (simple dive sites I already know, no navigation other than in and out, pretty much), calm conditions, and at least some other divers around the area (preferably someone on the shore who seems me go in and come out, if I can manage it). And I keep it shallow. Maybe I'll poke down to 40' or 50' for a minute or two, but by far most of the dive is around 30-40'. I'm air-integrated so I can easily observe how fast I'm going through gas, and getting too low (through lack of watching my PSI) is pretty remote.
My one change after about a year of this was to add redundant air. Since I don't need a safety stop if something goes wrong, all I need is enough to let me go to the surface nice and slowly. I *think* I could CESA from 40', but I am *positive* I'd rather have my Spare Air, even if it gives me all of 10 breaths, to go those 40'. (And whatever you may say about Spare Air, folks, from 40', it's a lot more than ten breaths. it's at least 20, which is a lot when all you need to do is get to the top. i've drilled with it in swimming pools, practicing deploying it.).