I guess what I meant was that in the planning for any tech dive, part of the logistics is 100% O2 available on the boat. On the local boats that I dive, that means a 6 foot tall O2 tank, not a DAN recreational O2 kit. I guess if you were diving from a private boat, then it would be up to you to have that available, and that might well be in the form of extra bottles. But that's a separate thing from the gas that you are planning to use for your dive.
So whether your emergency O2 on the boat is a big tank or a few extra 40s of O2, I don't see how that requirement influences what you chose to bring with you on your dive (80 vs 100), which was the OPs question.
But I do appreciate the stylistic advice, Dan..! As someone new to the world of tech diving, I want to look good...