So your respiration rate is regulated by the amount of CO2 circulating in your blood. Of course that’s going to rise when you’re expending more energy, either by over-working, and you’ve already addressed that you’re doing everything you can to be in trim etc. So the remaining thing that can be “modified” is your cardiovascular fitness. As others have mentioned, you have a BMI of 32, if you can get that under 25 I think you’ll be surprised how much excess weight you’re carrying. I had a BMI of 31 at the beginning of last year and lost 30 kg and I couldn’t believe how much my stamina and air consumption improved.
Beyond that, as I said, your air consumption is being driven by the CO2 in your blood. So find a way to lower that, but just trying to “control your breathing” as we hear literally all the time is actually potentially dangerous. Some people breath more air than others even when they’re at the top of their individual fitness level. You’re taller than average so you’re probably always going to consume more than average. Trying to breath less is like trying to ask your brain to please use less oxygen.