1. Currently diving with a Shearwater Perdix computer - which I thoroughly enjoy but am not 100% married to
2. Want the ability to travel with
3. Not really into tech diving - looking more for extended bottom times - super deep is not a big concern, but Id like to still have options down the road
I am a recent rb convert. Had many of the same questions. Decided on JJ-CCR and extremely happy with it. I have a strong local JJ community and local instructors for JJ.
1. Perdix is a great backup computer for any rb with Shearwater electronics.
2. JJ is not the lightest one to travel with, but you can squeeze everything you need on a warm water dive trip into a suitcase and a carry on. Two suitcases for a drysuit trip. Some units may travel slightly lighter, but none of them is small enough for flying without checking in some luggage. JJ is rugged and has a nice frame, it really excels in rough boat diving.
3. CCR is tech, and (relatively) deeper and longer dives will be tempting once you get used to your unit. Do not limit your options by choosing a "recreational" or otherwise limited unit.
Having recently completed Level 2 (MOD2) training, I recommend you to include that into your roadmap from the beginning. Not only for the depth, but more for problem solving skills and practicing them and getting feedback. My MOD1 course was great, and had plenty of MOD2 and cave style thinking included. Still I'd say anyone will benefit enormously from taking advanced level courses.
It was more along the lines of carrying the 100+ pounds of gear etc on OC
In the end, you will be carrying at least equal amount of gear. I need some extra weight with my JJ (in full cold water gear). Thus the minimum weight of gear I carry on any dive is essentially the same as for a single deco gas OC dive. For deco dives you need additional bailouts, thus the bulk of equipment won't be smaller at any point. Dives will be longer and possibly deeper with RB.
Maintenance takes some time, but that hasn't been overwhelming. I blend everything myself. With two sets of dil/o2 cylinders, filling and boosting takes less time than filling multiple sets of doubles during a good weekend. Other maintenance takes time too, but that hasn't bothered me. Building routines helps and is much safer too. I haven't found my diving days to be any longer due to maintenance. I also haven't run a compressor past midnight since switching.