InTheDrink
Contributor
Where did we get this notion that anyone has the right to control the conversations that people are having about them or their loved ones?
So it's somehow OK to criticize the DM (DG?) and dive op, but people aren't allowed to critique the behavior of this diver, because his relatives/friends might get offended? Really? The only criteria for garnering "respect" is whether or not the person died?
With all the pissing and moaning that's gone on in this thread, IMO "Whine and Cheeze" is the perfect place for it to land.
BTW, I just checked and the "Whine and Cheeze" forum is not on the "robots" exclusion list file that tells search engines like teh evul goog what not to index (but it could be if Pete wanted it to be).
It's comments like these that don't really help the point of the thread. I fail to see anywhere where I said a critique of the diver was not ok.
And it is common practise for some respect to be shown to the dead, irrespective of whether the primary objective of the forum is education. This respect does not mean that faults or errors by the diver cannot be critiqued - far from.
It's fine that you think that this should be whine and cheese. I'm sure you're not alone.
But others think that this is an important thread regarding diver responsibility and DM/pro responsibilities and now new nuances such as dive guides. And currently I am still very unclear whether there is a universal understanding of what the basic responsibilities of a DM/DG are. That kind of fuzziness appears to have contributed to the deceased's death.
Just my $0.02 and it matters fairly little to me personally as I've enough sense to know what I know and have an understanding of what I don't. But there's a long queue of wanna be divers, vacation divers, call them what you will, that will rightly or wrongly believe that they are in the careful hands of a professional that will guide them and keep them safe (within objective limits). If this is not the case then there's sure a lot to talk about and it's not whining.