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It is not about believing what the OP said or not. The OP was not diving with the deceased. Her information is based on that which she saw & heard. Nothing more nothing less.
uh, yes, AS AN EYE WITNESS. She heard conversation between "DM" and deceased.
The victims girlfriend's story is relayed to us by a 3rd person (the OP), that, by definition, is hearsay.
No, that would be second hand. Deceased girlfrend heard same thing OP and "DM" said to each other and agreed to.
The facts that you mention are an extension of what has been said by the OP, which makes them hers, not yours.
yes, that is true, but she was EYE WITNESS. I am just reminding you what she said. See? It does come down to , do you believer her?
So the bottom line is this, whilst it is clear that the DM/DG & Operator have some serious explanations to make, and no doubt, it sounds as though there was some misrepresentation on their part, they did not physically drown the deceased and I certainly hope nobody else did either.
But, this is important, IN THE FIRST REGARD, Dive Op, their reckless disregard for safety, caused this man's accident, of which diver is complicit
What some of us in the thread are interested in finding out what happened after he left the boat? how did he become separated from his buddy and his group? what caused him to get to 105m?
No, what some of us are interested in knowing is: what was first cause of this acccident and who is most at fault. Accordding to the OP, it is the Dive Op and dive guide. Do you disagree with OP that that set things in fatal motion?
The problem I find is that as soon as anyone breaches any of this kind of question you start shouting "DM failed to do his job, even on a minimal level" and other statements in that line.... we get it, we hear you, that does not make it true, or complete, or even fact .... no matter how often or loud you shout, it remains a speculative conclusion based on one person's perspective of the events on that day. We are not saying that she is not spot on, we are just exploring the whole story, to see how we, mere divers, can prevent this from happening to us and our loved ones in the future.
The REAL problem is that once a dive fatality occurs, the first one blamed is the diver for not taking responsility for himself, while immediately exonerating Dive Shop and DM of all responsibilty.
Is there much to learn from the DM/DG thing? Absolutely !! Is there also much to learn from this incident beyond the "care of duty" issue? yes.
To be clear, I hear you and agree that there appears to have been negligence on the part of the DM/DG and Operator. I (we?) are looking beyond that too.
Best Regards
Richard
Again, absent the first two mistakes, by Dive Op and DM, there is no further mistake in this incident and diver stays alive.