Pat,
For those reasons, it's usually recommended that friends and family NOT read accident analysis threads. It may be wise to pick one member from your Uncle's friends or family (preferably someone with dive experience) and have them read this thread. They can then report back to the rest of the family/friends with a more considerate tone.
There's also a memorial thread specifically for remembering divers that have passed away. If there is comfort to be found, it's more likely to be found there, among his friends in the diving community.
Once again, I'm sorry for your loss. You and your family have all of my best wishes and kindest thoughts.
-h
Thanks...The very first bullet in the Special Rules relates just to what you brought up. The Special Rules also brings attention to where condolences are to be placed...in the "Passings" Forum.