Once again hindsight is 20/20... we know when the window of opportunity occurred in this case.
I don't say the DM was blameless but I can also see where the DM would be surprised at the response of being "brushed off" and have a
moment!
The next time I indicate to my buddy that we should or shouldn't do something and don't get immediate compliance maybe I should hop on his tank and force him to the surface?
If you don't think a little old lady can be a handful you obviously have never had to restrain or try to control an Alzheimer's Patient.
I am afraid I think the person responsible for Mrs Woods' unfortunate demise is Mrs Wood. I think others may have some small share of the blame but that is all and IMHO the DM had the deck stacked against her from the moment she entered the water on this dive.
Hi bowlofpetunias,
I understand and agree with most of what you are saying, but at this point I finally need to "come clean" and say that my comments are not so much "hindsight" as they are actually "deja vu".
I've been involved an eerily similar situation to the one described in this incident, but the outcome was far happier.
With out going into full and boring detail, it involved a tropical location, a sheer drop off, depth, narcosis, a non-coopperative diver, and initial confusion by the dive leader as to what to do next as not one but
two potential victims swam deeper after being warned to stop and brushed off the leader. And yes, it did require that the dive leader physically grab and then swim one of them up into shallower water while the other followed.
I was the designated "dive leader", and was 19 years old at the time. I was just a "regular" diver, not a dive professional of any kind.
The two divers I "brought up" from the depths were a fortyish father and his teenage son. The dad had been diving longer than I had, but had less recent dive experience and less experience at depth (I did not know that until later).
They would either have been bent or dead and I not intervened and "physically" stopped them. The dad was narc'ed, and the son was following him.
The situation I found myself in (uncooperative diver that ignored a warning to not go any deeper) was indeed very confusing, and I understand the confusion the DM must have felt.
But the DM also knew, like I knew, that if the divers continued to descend, bad things were probably going to happen.
To prevent an injury or fatality, you may be forced to physically intervene. Most of us will have a pretty good idea when
"it's time" to do this. I did not see any other option in the incident I was involved in, and I don't see another option for the DM in this accident. She had warned Mrs. Woods, gotten brushed-off, and at that point should have decided
"it's time" and physically stopped Mrs. Woods.
I do feel for the DM, can fully understand the confusion she felt and how bad she must now feel.
Best wishes.