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Ain't that the truth!
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Ain't that the truth!
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If it is no big deal, or if we should just "get over it," then why has this thread persisted for 8 years?
Ain't that the truth!
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See posts #38 and #39 as above.![]()
Yeah, that was three weeks ago. What about the preceeding eight years?
Hmm...maybe the Bush administration's "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" approach actually worked?
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I'm kidding, I'm kidding!
iztok, do you think it's likely that lgbt people are having experiences that you may not be aware of? If it is no big deal, or if we should just "get over it," then why has this thread persisted for 8 years? What could be going on here that you don't understand?
I will tell you from my experiences as a gay person that many straight people are completely unaware of a lot of what goes on in my life, and how my life is different from theirs. And I know this not only from their actions, but because they themselves have told me repeatedly, after getting to know me and becoming a part of my life, "I had no idea about any of this..."
Yes, lgbt people want to connect with each other. Why is that such a threatening thing? Straight people are the dominant group in virtually every public space in our society. Why do they get their panties all in a twist when we want 2 inches of space for ourselves, or when we want to relate to each other, or when we attempt to create some type of space in which they are not at center stage every minute? They take offense at every deviation from their script.
If you're a libertarian, you'll likely grasp that lgbt people can choose to connect with each other within a diving context, and that other people's opinions or speculations on whether or not we should do this or why we do it don't matter much.
TOh well we must hang around different crowds then as sex, politics and religion comes up fairly frequently with my friends.
I've got a female friend who's a diver who could well meet the same stranger on a dive boat and say "I love cave diving, but I'm married, and Nancy doesn't like the idea of me diving in a cave..." the response would often be "Why do you people always have to shove your sex life in our faces?"