Failure to freeflow after a brisk purge can be a function of two factors only: 1) the venturi-induced vacuum in the reg body with brisk airflow, and 2) the degree of valve opening, which is a function of lever height. In turn, the degree of valve opening affects #1 the amount of venturi vacuum generated.
So, if you are not getting freeflow, my first question is whether or not the mouthpiece has been removed at your test bench. The Apeks service manual specifies in a NOTE box to perform bench tests before installing the mouthpiece. Some brands (notably some Scubapro regs) have a mouthpiece restriction which will markedly decrease the degree to which their reg reverts to freeflow. The restriction doesn't affect normal (or even heavy) breathing, but serves to decrease the flow-induced vacuum. Once you have removed the mouthpiece, and your test reveals no freeflow on purge, you know you do not have enough flow to "suck" the diaphragm in.
The next issue is cracking effort. Make sure your reg has a low cracking effort (e.g., 1.0" for the XTX). Although you can get it lower, the problems of case geometry fault are a subject for another thread. If you don't have a magnehelic gauge, fill your sink with water and pressurize your reg. Lower it into the water with the diaphragm horizontal (parallel to the water surface). The diaphragm is roughly at the seam between the case and faceplate. The reg should begin to hiss lightly when the seam is 1.0" below the water's surface, and certainly before the mouthpiece goes under the water. Adjust the microadjust so that you have a light cracking effort. The reason cracking effort plays a role is that the vacuum created by rapid outrush of air from the mouthpiece may not be sufficient to keep the diaphragm pulled in if your valve requires 1.5" or 2" of opening effort. The vacuum has to counteract a larger spring force if cracking effort is set too high.
If you still don't have freeflow with cracking effort at the low end of specification, the lever height is the likely culprit. With the reg pressurized, does the reg "rattle" when you shake it? That's likely a low lever flapping against the diaphragm. If you can't hear a rattle, unscrew the case faceplate, and with the reg pressurized, LIGHTLY depress the diaphragm. Can you feel when it engages the lever? How far does the diaphragm depress before flow is initiated? If it's more than 1/16", your lever is probably too low. Unscrew the orifice in 1/12 turn increments until the lever rises a bit. If the reg begins to freeflow when you unscrew the orifice a touch, try screwing in the microadjust to increase spring tension. That dynamic interplay between the orifice and poppet spring tension is the key to all this. You can have your orifice way in, with the microadjust way out, and cracking effort will be fine, but the lever is low. You can have your orifice way out (just short of leak) and the microadjust in, and cracking effort will be fine, but the lever is too high when you try to screw down the faceplate.
The lever adjust tool is designed to put you in the ballpark between those two extremes, but as I suggested earlier, I don't bother using it. The 2008 service manual doesn't even mention it, but instead specifies screwing in the orifice, and then unscrewing until the lever rises even with the case rim. The key is lever position relative to the diaphragm when the reg is pressurized. Check that before you screw down the faceplate. PM me if you'd like to discuss offline. Good luck!