Everybody asks where speculation intrudes on decorum.
I will give a brief example relevant to me. I was recently around a dive accident that shook me up a little. As I wasn't real close to the scene, the rescuers got there before I would have had a prayer of helping. I decided that it was best to not be a rubber-necker and stayed away (actually a good decision) as pretty much every third person at that dive site is a dive professional/ rescue-trained diver.
The information that I got was not good for the victim's medical condition. So, I talked to some friends but tried to hold off speculating on the boards until I knew more. Sure enough, the guesses that I heard from the first responder that came in from our group the scene were logical. But he wisely didn't didn't present them as conclusions for a reason. He saw but a portion of the scene.
The gentleman lived and is doing great. Based on the information that I had that day, the gentleman should have been dead. Now, there are facts as the victim is alive. If the sharks (us), start circling too early we have been known to be wrong. This is a case where I am glad that I held off posting publicly what I thought, because I would have looked like a fool and possibly said things that were completely off-base. I would have felt obligated to present apologies to the victim who lived for presenting the false information as well.
I will give a brief example relevant to me. I was recently around a dive accident that shook me up a little. As I wasn't real close to the scene, the rescuers got there before I would have had a prayer of helping. I decided that it was best to not be a rubber-necker and stayed away (actually a good decision) as pretty much every third person at that dive site is a dive professional/ rescue-trained diver.
The information that I got was not good for the victim's medical condition. So, I talked to some friends but tried to hold off speculating on the boards until I knew more. Sure enough, the guesses that I heard from the first responder that came in from our group the scene were logical. But he wisely didn't didn't present them as conclusions for a reason. He saw but a portion of the scene.
The gentleman lived and is doing great. Based on the information that I had that day, the gentleman should have been dead. Now, there are facts as the victim is alive. If the sharks (us), start circling too early we have been known to be wrong. This is a case where I am glad that I held off posting publicly what I thought, because I would have looked like a fool and possibly said things that were completely off-base. I would have felt obligated to present apologies to the victim who lived for presenting the false information as well.