The primary reason people don't dive alone is to avoid becoming dead.
Having read through all of your rants, there is one thing I have decided - I don't want to dive with YOU.
I dive solo in areas I am comfortable diving solo - I don't dive solo in areas I am not familiar. Too many times I have been 'hindered' with insta-buddies - but you know what - I did it to keep the less-experienced person comfortable. Did they dive with me to 'avoid becoming dead' - no - they dove with me because they felt more comfortable.
I dive with other people because I enjoy sharing the experiences of the dive. Same reason I take video.
I really feel like (my impression after reading all of your posts) you live in a world where everything is out to make your life difficult. I'm sorry that you feel that way.
Let's think for a moment - anytime you dive with students or very new divers, what is their ability level to truly assist you in an emergency? I would posit very low given my own experience. (22+ years of diving). So, you are essentially solo in these instances.
You mentioned that you had to rescue someone who could not manage their pony - that's an issue for that ONE person - yet you wanted to overgeneralize that to the world of pony bottle users (I am taking a little license here based on your other wild generalizations).
Please, take a moment, sit back, let's see what really comes out of this incident.
Sure, it is POSSIBLE that this guy ran out of air - If this person was buddied with an inexperienced diver, then perhaps he would have been OK - perhaps there would be two dead divers. YOU don't know what would have happened. It's also POSSIBLE this guy had a heart attack - same issues with a buddy - again, we weren't there, we don't know. This is all speculation - yet you seem hell-bent-for-leather on pushing your own agenda onto the board - PLEASE - let's not do that.
Let's have some USEFUL discourse and try to see if we can learn anything from this tragedy. Trying to change the world to your way of thinking simply is not going to work.